VickyNguyen
Member Since: November 17, 2009
Location: Bay Area, California
The short version: I'm a reporter for NBC Bay Area, a new mom, a huge fan of dooce, and a new blogger, inspired by women like you, who are working it, at home and out in the world.
I'm married to a patient and saintly man, and in addition to our 7 month old baby Emerson, we share our house with a min pin and two chihuahuas. And oh yeah, my mom.
The long version is here: http://www.vickynguyen.com/about-me/
I twitter at: http://www.twitter.com/vickydnguyen
"What's your 'road not taken?'"
"What do you think people judge you about?"
"What is a guaranteed argument starter in your house?"
Make people laugh. Teach people something. Share something that will help people grow and learn. That's what I like about the blogs I read. Good luck to you.
Easy--HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA. That is so classic and hilare. Thanks for sharing that site. When immigrant parents text it's also quite funny. I just added texting to my parents' cell plan and man, those are classics. You just reminded me of
Totally not PC but funny as hell if you have parents who did not originate in this country. The punctuation, the topics they decide to 'warn' you about. The total randomness of immigrant parents is really a treasure trove, especially in the written form.
From the site:
Mom comes into room singing: Like a cheesecake, like a cheesecake!
Me: Mama, what are you singing?
Mom: The song your brother is playing in his room.
Me: HAHA. IT’S LIKE A G6!!!
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Text I received from my mom while I was with my friends on Superbowl Sunday:
“You should watch superball half time black eyed pee were great”
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My mother sent me an email to warn me about traveling to the Philippines. In addition, I work in telecommunications so my mother had to tell me about some random Nokia news in this email.
Hi:
There are more robbery cases in Philippine, 1 of my Sunnyvale co-worker got robbed and shot, his father died at the spot. Check your belongings frequently, consolidate to 1 or 2 packs.
4 weeks ago a crocodile in Ukraine zoo swallowed a NOKIA cel, people can hear that phone is ringing from his tummy, that poor cracodile doesn’t want to eat, he is really sick so he might have a surgery .
Have fun!
mom
CO--she said one can a week is pretty much the recommendation. Less if you're prego. Yeah, when I read Heather's post I was like---oh yeah, tuna, the forgotten protein in my cupboard! And I ate a can at work the next day. I'm nowhere near one can a day or even a week but I thought if Heather inspired anyone to go on a tuna binge, this might be a reminder that there can be a little too much of a good thing.
Gone Fishin--Thanks girlfriend. Really appreciate that.
Hmm. If you're in Union Square, it's a great place to stroll about and do some shopping. If you're near the Embarcadero, check out the Ferry Building. Pier 39 is nice but pretty touristy. That's where the sea lions are. North Beach is great for Italian food. If you're closer to the middle of the city--Golden Gate Park is very zen and there are lots of places to walk around and see flowers/butterflies/nature etc. SF is only 49 square miles so everything is close-ish.
Just thinking of things I would want to do as a prego, that are fun but not crazy.Wear layers. Supposed to be blustery this weekend.
Now that I'm a mom--online with free shipping is AWESOME. Like getting presents at your doorstep without lugging a stroller around. But I still like shopping as a 'hobby.' It's sort of therapeutic to walk around and look at shiny things. To actually get stuff done--online shopping is so much more efficient.
This is a reporter in SF (who has left the industry) who ate 20 cans of tuna in 20 days and her mercury levels went up--a lot. To the point her doctor (who is pro-tuna mercury labeling) told her to stop. I came across the story because she won an award for it and I wanted to see what she did in her experiment.
Also, here in CA lawmakers are deciding whether to put warning labels on tuna on store shelves.
Again, this is not my story, this is not me, and this is not a link to a blog post. I can't summarize the whole story in this answer but as a mom, a tuna eater, and a person who has fed tuna to my 2 year old, I found this story to be quite informative, and timely, considering Heather's recent post about snacking on tuna.
Here is the link. I found it interesting how the U.S. compares to other countries too when it comes to how much mercury is considered safe in your diet.
As a follow up--what do you do if the business owner demands you remove a negative review? It's happened a few times and I stand by what I said but I try to be fair and update the review if it's warranted. Especially if they are apologetic or genuinely responsive. If they call with a threat or they're even more rude, then I usually ignore. Why don't people understand that being nice always gets you further than being mean?
thefirecat: aaauuuuughhhhhh the visual. it burns!!!!
Why not? It's practical and you can make them funny or simple.
I do. But only if I loved it. Or hated it. The average stuff I leave to the masses. I know those sites are not perfect but if enough people say one thing or another, it's pretty trustworthy. And it's a nice outlet to be able to describe, in detail, if you were wronged. Or, if that was the best place ever and they were super nice and above and beyond.
Like the nurse who prevented me from having a C-section. I wrote a review, I wrote her boss, and I wrote the CEO of her hospital. I will do right by you if you do right by me. Conversely, if you provided jacked service, you will get a jacked review.
Maggles - that's a great story! Mine is a big downer, I'll warn you.
When I was 15 my mother fell in love with a man who was a violent alcoholic. One night when she was at work (she was a 2nd shift nurse) he threw me out of the house. I dropped out of school and spent the next several years lying about my age and experience in order to get jobs. I got fired a lot. I was homeless several times. I've lost count of the number of jobs I've held and places I've lived (20-30 between the ages of 15-18). I saw one movie ("A Fish Called Wanda") in the 8 or so years that followed. I don't know what tv shows or songs were popular. Most of my time was spent hiding the truth of my situation from the world. It was extraordinarily lonely, but I've had some interesting jobs.
The idea that "that which does not kill you makes you stronger," or "you're never given more than you can handle" can send me into a rage, and all these years later I still feel at times like the 15 year old who no one wanted, who no one loved enough to defend or protect, which is why this feels like the only story I have.
There was a post the other day about things that make you go "what?" when you hear that people haven't done them. I responded that I'm the person that others say "what?" about, and in the course of the replies, @delo asked what I was doing during my "lost years" of '85-'93-ish. This is the answer to that question.
While living in San Francisco, I once took a seasonal, two month job in beautiful Lake Tahoe. It was there that I met a wonderful man who I assured would be the father of my children. Laughing as he walked away, I followed him back home. To Cleveland, OH, where six years later, we were married.
That is my entire life; the only story I have.
Keep it real. Make it about expressing yourself and telling a good story first, and about monetizing last. Some of the blogs I read (like Dooce) are monetized, but I've stopped reading a lot of blogs because the posts began to seem more like ads. If every post you make is either
a) self promotion
b) promotion of other bloggers in hope that they will then promote you
c) commercial in some day - promoting products (paid or unpaid), raving about certain companies, reviews, etc.
d) Any combination of the above
I quickly lose interest. I would rather see ads, but have the blogger keep the blog a blog than visit a blog that is just shameless self-flogging.
Finally, I follow blogs where the commenters get replied to occasionally. If I leave comments on a blog but never get a response (a reply to a comment, or a reciprocal visit to my own blog) I often lose interest unless the writing is really exceptional.
A lot of blogs (like mine) maintain a following despite a complete dearth of talent, simply because commenters have developed a sort of friendship with the blogger.
I think it's important to blog what you know and are passionate about.
Just because another blogger had success blogging about subject A doesn't mean you will, especially if you aren't passionate/knowledgeable about subject A.
I don't blog to get comments, I blog because I do. I might only have a handfull of readers, but I don't let comment numbers or stats dictate my blogging. If I have something that I think is interesting, I'll write about it, if not, I won't. Some months I blog lots, some I don't.
I think you need to figure out what you like talking about and make that the focus of your blog.
I can't say I've read a "bad" blog. I've read blogs that maybe aren't of interest to me, but that's the great things about blogs, everyone of them is different and you'll always find readers who want to read about what your write (except, maybe, if you talk about killing puppies)
There was a Native American guy who used to come speak in one of my environment classes in college who always told a story about a year when he had netted a lot of big Northern Pike and was eating it every day...until his arms started going numb and his fingers started getting tingly. His mercury levels turned out to be way, way elevated. And that stuff never leaves your body. (That's also why older/larger fish have more of it than the smaller ones.)
Wow, this is interesting. I mean, I always knew about mercury, but I always thought it was more dangerous for pregnant women. Well, it is but this puts things in perspective. I have been eating a lot of tuna because it is cheap and I love it. I'm going to tone down to a can every 2ish weeks!
Also, solid white tuna (the good/expensive stuff) is higher in mercury. My son's favorite dinner is tuna with noodles. We use cento tuna in olive oil and toss it with noodles and he could eat it every day. We limit it to once every two weeks or so. This variety of tuna is lower quality however, so it is lower in mercury. This preparation of tuna, packed in olive oil, is delicious and I could eat it several times a week, right out of the can. When I used to actually go to work, I had a few cans stored in a drawer to eat with pretzels for a quick lunch.
For me, it is the When Parents Text website.
Some of my favorites:
mom: your dad and I have been married for 9,999 days today!
me: ....
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Mom: your father really is a facebook monster… ironically, you didn’t want to friend me!
Me: Haha
[7 minutes later]
Mom: HE IS DRIVING ME CRAZY W/ FB - HE’S SCARING PEOPLE AND AN EMBARRASSMENT. I MIGHT CHANGE MY RELATIONSHIP STATUS AND DEFRIEND HIM
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Dad: Your cat vomited
Dad: Covered it up with a bowl so you can clean it up when you come home from school in three weeks
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Mom: When you cry, I cry, when you feel sad, I feel sad, when you’re happy, I’m happy. Can I have your zip code?
I could totally eat a can of tuna a day, no problem. But this IS interesting - I wonder if Heather thought about this as a potential for harm? Now, of course, different brands and all that jazz might vary but I would be seriously thinking about this if I were consuming a lot of tuna.
Is there a safe amount to eat? (Sorry, I didn't watch the video simply because I don't have the time right now!) I would think that you could maybe have it every other day?
This kind of stuff makes me crazy because it is just SO HARD to figure out what is good for you.
Eat soy - no wait, it stores estrogen.
Eat tuna - no wait, it has mercury in it.
Eat organic - no wait, not if they have to truck it here because that is a big carbon footprint.
Eat chicken - no wait, not that chicken it hasn't been humanely raised.
Eat eggs - no wait, they are full of cholesteral - no they're not - yes they are but it's good cholesteral.
I mean seriously, does anyone else find it just kind of mind boggling to figure out what is actually 'good' food anymore??
I think that's interesting too.
But I have to admit that after reading Heather's post about her tuna snacks, I just...blech. I cannot imagine eating tuna every day like that! I'd get bored with it after a few days, and have to switch it up a bit.
Eating a can of tuna every day for a month seems worse than sharing a jail cell with Paris Hilton for a month. >.< GAH!
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